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Preparing Your Child for School: A Parent's Checklist

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David Brown
Young child with backpack ready for first day of school

Starting school is a major milestone in your child's life. Whether they're beginning kindergarten or transitioning to a new school, proper preparation can make all the difference in ensuring a smooth and positive experience.

Academic Readiness

While formal academic skills aren't necessary for starting school, these foundational abilities help:

  • Recognition of their own name in print
  • Basic counting and number recognition
  • Ability to hold a pencil and attempt to write
  • Interest in books and stories
  • Basic color and shape recognition

Social and Emotional Skills

These skills are often more important than academic abilities:

  • Ability to separate from parents/caregivers
  • Basic sharing and turn-taking skills
  • Following simple instructions
  • Expressing needs and feelings verbally
  • Managing emotions appropriately for their age

Practical Skills

Help your child master these everyday tasks:

  • Using the toilet independently
  • Washing and drying hands
  • Opening lunch boxes and food containers
  • Putting on and taking off their uniform
  • Managing their belongings

Preparing in the Weeks Before School

  • Visit the school together and explore the playground
  • Practice the morning routine
  • Read books about starting school
  • Arrange playdates with future classmates if possible
  • Label all belongings clearly

Supporting the Transition

Once school starts:

  • Maintain consistent routines for sleep and meals
  • Show interest in their day without overwhelming them with questions
  • Stay positive about school experiences
  • Communicate openly with teachers
  • Be patient – adjustment takes time

Remember, every child develops at their own pace. Focus on building confidence and excitement about learning rather than achieving specific milestones.

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